Get Your Ex Back: The Love Recipe

The most important rule is that there is a big difference between what you have to do get your ex back and getting back at your ex. Don't even think about trying to get him or her back until you have stopped hating him or her. You can't plot revenge and plan a happy future together at the same time.

While you are waiting to recover your sanity give some thought to three things. Think about why you were attracted to that person in the first place. Think about why you broke up. Think about what happened in between.

Did you discover you were in love with her when you realized she could drink you under the table? Did you love the way he cussed out the cop the time he got pulled over for speeding? It's just possible that the things that excited you about each other in the first place were really not a good basis for a long-term relationship.

If you broke up because one of you deceived and betrayed the other and the other was completely shocked and devastated to learn the sordid truth there might be a problem. If you were both basically decent people but you gradually drifted apart because you were both so busy maybe there's hope.

In between the beginning and the end if there was abuse or violence or threats or accusations that took up more time than anything fun or interesting you might want to think long and hard about getting that ex back.If you were usually interested in each other thoughts and feelings and if you usually enjoyed the time you spent together there might be hope.

Before you even try to talk to your ex spend some serious time remembering what it was you loved about that person. Don't try to talk to the person who broke your heart.

If something important and positive brought you together in the first place reflect on what it was. Did you share a dream? Did you have plans for a future that you were going to build together? Did one of you lose sight of the dream? Can the plan be renegotiated? If you can talk to the person you loved about the dream you shared there might be hope.

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